What can you do to a women to get her sexually aroused?

To sexually arouse a woman be attentive to how she perceives you.
Sexual arousal in a woman is influenced by relationship, your attitude and situation.
Here is what you can do to cause sexual arousal, call it lust, romance, or love, in a woman.
Relationship: In married or committed relationship sexual arousal is kept alive by nurturing all throughout your life, enthusiasm, novelty, acceptance, expression of love and communicating expectations. When in the bedroom what brings sexual excitement is Privacy, Secrecy and Shamelessness. To bring sensuous mood you can choose decor such as lighting, perfume, lingerie, particular place, picnics (honey moon), position, and manner of giving sexual pleasure. Innovate new ways of expressing love such as giving Greeting Card of Love. What not to do is not to nag with criticism and complaints.

Socially accepted norms, such as marriage, only indicate whether sex is permissible or not permissible.
Attitude: Communication of sexual interest (romance) begins primarily through eye contact. The arousal is further kindled by chatting (over phone or internet or during personal meeting). Sexual arousal is an emotional affair, not physical. If sex is physics, love is chemistry. Imagination works, not intelligence.
Though it is said, "Love happens," there are factors that make love happen. Therefore some men are good at igniting sexual arousal (good lovers) others are not.

Wealth, Celebrity status, Physique apart, Personality is one important determinant causing sexual arousal. Even if you do not have the first three, that is you are not wealthy, celebrity or handsome hunk you can heighten sexual arousal if you cultivate the personality as mentioned below.

To define this personality that attracts a woman the two words 'bad boy' are useful.
It is not appreciation, compliments, gift or wooing that causes sexual arousal, but being naughty.
It is not by looking over, but it is overlooking that increases arousal. Attitude of being difficult to get, or I don't care about you, or irreverence ignites passion. Being humorously mischievous, wild jokes at her make inhibitions fall down.
Situation: Staying, studying, working in close proximity gives more opportunity to make her fall in love.

Medicines containing hormones namely, estrogen with or without testosterone, in the form of skin patches or tablets or injections bring about sexual arousal in those women who by due clinical examination and investigation by Qualified Doctor are proved to be having loss of libido due to hormonal imbalance. Example women in perimenopausal period.

Medicines that lift mood, the antidepressants, increase sexual arousal, which was diminished due to Phoenix Disorder (Endogenous Depression).

What does not cause increase in sexual arousal in woman are as follows.

Behavior: Nagging, belittling with criticism and complaints.

Medicines/Substances: Alcohol does not cause sexual arousal, but it does decrease inhibitions in men as well as in women. Alcohol is not proven to be an aphrodisiac [substance causing sexual arousal]. In some animals pheromones secreted by the body cause compulsive sexual attraction. Such a chemical is not yet found to influence sexual arousal in humans.

Unlike a man who craves lustily on seeing woman's body, women are not sexually aroused just by looking at man's body part and are not impressed by man's penis.

Remember the P-cock syndrome, which says that though almost all men believe that length, girth, tightness of penis, how long, how often they do sex, increases woman's sexual arousal this belief is a MYTH. It is MISTAKE of male psyche.

 

How to Get a Woman to Be Aroused - Without Touching Her at All

Here's the main difference between a man's sexual arousal and a woman's. A man gets aroused quickly and fast, and the demand for gratification is higher than women. Women, on the other hand, get aroused slowly, but the flame of passion endures longer.

Whenever we compare men and women in terms of sexual arousal, and the demand for gratification, a sprint and a marathon come to mind. The fact is, for a sexual relationship to last, a man must slow down his passion, while a woman must speed up to meet her man's pace.

Common sex problems arise when the man reaches the pinnacle of pleasure too soon, and when the woman reaches her climax too long, if at all.

Here are two things you can do to speed up your woman's arousal, and have her meeting you halfway in the bedroom. 

Method One - "Smell Her Body". A woman gets turned on when the man smells her all over her body. When you sniff her, it makes her feel like you're appreciating her fragrance and she gets turned on by that.
A woman wants to feel appreciated and desired. By showing her that her smell arouses you, she feels a lot more sexy. Don't be shy with your sniffing; breathe on her skin and make her skin prickle with anticipation. Sensual seduction is necessary to crank up women's arousal, and this is an effective way of doing that.

Method Two - "Be a Tease". If you touch her so softly that she can barely feel it, you increase sexual tension ten-fold. She will anticipate your touch and she feels that you're holding back, albeit barely.

This makes her feel powerful and desired. She might just go wild on you and ignore all her inhibitions to make you touch her more. How excited will you be when she becomes the 'aggressor'? I'm guessing that's an awesome experience for you so you have to increase sexual tension more whenever you make love to her.

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